A Legend
As I am sure you know, today, Mr. Fred Rogers died after a short battle with stomach cancer. I had avoided posting about his death today because, I didn't know exactly what to say about it, and because it's been widely covered on the net and I didn't want to be repetitious.
But...I got to thinking, and I do have a few things that I think need to be said about Mr. Rogers.
Everyone is talking about Mr. Rogers today. It happens frequently when a celebrity dies, their popularity spikes in the days following their death. Mr. Rogers is no different. I am sure that many of us in the Gen X generation haven't had a conscious thought about Mr. Rogers in years, yet today we're all talking about him. In fact I even heard a caller on Talk of the Nation on NPR who said that his company has dedicated tomorrow as "Cardigan Day" as a small way to honor Mr. Rogers. The mere fact that every newscast, radio call-in show, workplace and private conversation is dominated by the death of this man really got me thinking.
Mr. Rogers gave all of us a gift that we may not have realized until now. In giving us the gift of himself, he gave us the gift of ourselves. Let me explain. Mr. Rogers taught us to be genuine, to be accepting and to be an individual. I remember, as I'm sure many of you do, a particular episode when Mr. Rogers was trying to make a rainbow with water mist and a flashlight. He couldn't do it. He was obviously getting frustrated until eventually his neighbor came over with a prism and helped him make the rainbow. Mr. Rogers was frustrated on a children's program. They aired his frustrations, teaching us that it's ok to be frustrated, it's ok not to succeed at first, you should keep trying.
In a world where we are all worried about how we look, how much money we make, what kind of car we drive, how big our houses are and what our job title is. We could probably stand to remember some of the lessons we learned from a man who wasn't afraid to wear an uncool cardigan, sing off key, and care about his neighbors. Fred Rogers was a very special man.